Love and Relationships
There are no machinations in true love...
There are no secret conversations, manipulations, or conspiracies...
There's no one-upmanship or competing, it's just love...
There's transparency in your thoughts and actions, there's no convincing there's just acceptance, trust and knowing...
The desire to inhabit, cohabit, and coexist is inherent...
Never an afterthought, you don't have to try, because the feeling you have, 'exists'...
It lives and breathes, it's current...
It's not about meeting someone else's needs or making them happy (these things are impossible, in my opinion) ...
It's about having an understanding and acceptance of yourself, not perfection or mythic inner peace, but an internal self-honesty...
Then you meet someone and cultivate, share, engage, grow...or not...
You can be in love with yourself, just fine; in fact, I recommend it…
You have to be enough for yourself...
If you don't have inner love validation, then it's attached to something, someone or people...
Or more dangerously an ideal or an image, or a dominant authority figure, buried deep in your psyche...
Either way, we are far, far more transparent than we can possibly imagine...
So, who do love? Or who are those that you love... Who do you want to love you, is probably the most important question...for all your actions will be geared towards pleasing this person or 'persons'...
To procure this most elusive elixir called love...
Life is full of surprises...
The sun shines in unexpected places...
Enigmatic warmth emerges and grants you grace...
Where your strength ends, the universe steps in to hold you up...
Small steps, quantum leaps, nothing is by chance...
It's just a pattern that we don't yet recognise...
The universe loves you...
A connection worthy of one hundred lifetimes can be formed in a matter of minutes...
Years are not the only currency for a trustworthy and reliable relationship...
A genuine openness, investment in a person, a quality of attention and self-awareness, can form powerful bonds...
Which can hold you up and support you unexpectedly...
The person you are, cannot always be seen, by those that have always known you...
Sometimes you need to go outside of your norm, to awaken and rediscover who are...