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My son is 26 years old,I have raised him as a single parent.We belong to Pakistan where parents are highly respected.He never develop attachments woth any one. Lacks empathy and hates every human being and confined to his room 24 hours a day.I am his worst enemy because I te him to find a job ,live a normal life.He then beats me,curses, calls me bad names and tell me that I am not responsible for looking after you.But you will serve me and if not then you will face the consequences 

I am on the verge of a suicide as I have no one accept him.In Pakistan mothers are blamed what ever the consequences. 

I gave him all which he didn't even ask for

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Shanaz Shah
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Thank you for trusting us with something so painful. I can hear how exhausted, hurt, and alone you are feeling after carrying this burden for so many years. Raising a child as a single parent is already a difficult journey, and facing aggression and rejection from the same child can be deeply heartbreaking.

First, I want to say something very clearly: what you are experiencing is not your fault. Parents often blame themselves when their children struggle, but one person cannot fully control another person's behavior, especially once they are an adult.

The behavior you described — physical violence, threats, extreme anger, and isolation — is very serious and concerning. Your safety matters. No one deserves to be beaten, threatened, or treated like a servant in their own home. If you ever feel that your life is in danger, it is important to seek immediate help from trusted relatives, neighbors, or local authorities.

I am also very concerned about what you shared about feeling on the verge of suicide. Your life is valuable and your suffering deserves support and understanding. You should not have to carry this pain alone.

Even if your son refuses help right now, you can still receive support for yourself. Talking to a therapist can help you process the emotional pain, develop ways to protect yourself, and find practical steps to manage this situation.

If you are comfortable, we can arrange a session where you can talk openly about everything you are going through. My goal would be to support you, help you regain some stability, and explore possible ways forward for both your safety and wellbeing.

You deserve support, respect, and peace in your life.

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