On Happiness, Desire, and the Life We Live
Life often feels like a gentle tug-of-war between what we want and what we think we deserve. We chase moments of joy, yet they slip through our fingers just as we begin to grasp them. Love, too, is a mirror: in the longing for connection, we confront the depths of our own desire, the parts of ourselves that remain hidden, unspoken, and sometimes even unrecognized.
Happiness is rarely a steady state. It appears in flashes—when we allow ourselves to be present, to feel the subtle currents of our emotions, and to sit with our contradictions without judgment. Pain, disappointment, and longing are not enemies of happiness; they are its companions, quietly shaping our understanding of life and the tenderness we can offer ourselves and others.
To live fully is to navigate these currents with awareness: to notice when our desires repeat patterns, when our attachments reveal old wounds, and when letting go is the only path forward. In doing so, we find that happiness is not a destination, but a delicate rhythm between acceptance, curiosity, and the courage to face the truths within us.
