Self-love and Happiness
What is Self-Love?
For me, it has three parts:
1. Accepting and loving myself unconditionally, irrespective of my weaknesses
2. Working on my weaknesses, gently
3. Taking tiny steps to being the best version of myself, consistently
When you love yourself, firstly, you need not depend on others for happiness. Even if you are not around people, you will not feel bored or the need to be constantly in presence of others. This is especially true in case of husband-wife relationship. When you are happy being with yourself, you do not constantly seek the presence of your spouse for happiness to deal with boredom. Thus, you are giving your spouse the space to be himself or herself. This would improve the relationship to better.
Secondly, when you love yourself, you know that you are your best friend. You will develop an internal state of happiness and peace, irrespective of the circumstances around you.
Do you agree?