The Myth of Knowing Everything in Psychoanalysis
There is a widespread dogma—often unspoken—that some people in psychoanalysis "know everything." This assumption deserves to be questioned because it is fundamentally at odds with psychoanalytic theory itself.
Psychoanalysis is not built upon certainty but upon inquiry. Freud never presented it as a closed system of knowledge. On the contrary, he understood the unconscious as something that continually escapes our attempts to fully grasp it. If the unconscious can never be completely known, how could any analyst claim to possess complete knowledge?
Jacques Lacan argued that the analyst must occupy a position of not-knowing. This is not ignorance but an ethical stance. The analyst listens without assuming they already know the meaning of the patient's words or symptoms. The moment we believe we have all the answers, we stop listening to the patient and begin listening only to our own theories.
Wilfred Bion expressed a similar idea when he suggested that the analyst should work "without memory and without desire." He was inviting us to suspend our preconceptions and theoretical certainties so that something genuinely new can emerge during the analytic encounter. Every patient is unique, and every analysis teaches us something we did not know before.
Perhaps this is something psychoanalytic institutions themselves need to reconsider. Sometimes a culture develops in which certain analysts, supervisors, or authors are treated as if they possess the final truth about the human mind. Ironically, this kind of idealization is itself a phenomenon that psychoanalysis teaches us to question.
The best analyst is not the one who claims to know everything, but the one who remains curious. Someone who is willing to tolerate uncertainty, who continues asking questions, and who recognizes that no theory, however sophisticated, can fully capture the complexity of another human being.
Psychoanalysis is not a collection of unquestionable doctrines. It is a way of thinking, listening, and remaining open to the unknown. The day we believe we know everything about the psyche is the day we stop doing psychoanalysis. True psychoanalytic work begins precisely where certain
