How do I cope with a breakup like this?
My boyfriend just left after another big fight. He said he couldn’t do this anymore, even though I told him I didn’t want to break up and that I still love him. He said it’s all my fault. We’ve been together for three years, and now it feels like he’s gone forever, like the relationship has died.
My birthday is coming up in a couple of days, and I always imagined we’d celebrate together. I know he was planning to propose, but now that’s not happening. I’m afraid he’ll come to get his things and ask for the ring back or just leave it without seeing me. I don’t think I can handle seeing him and being reminded of everything, especially so close to my birthday.
I feel lost, heartbroken, and unsure of what to do. Should I try to reach out and ask for forgiveness? Or should I let him go?
How do I get through this? Any advice from a therapist or someone who’s been through something similar would really help.