Breaking the silence on Rape

For some weeks now, I have been working on an important topic/issue. Rape is actually a pervasive issue but the victims are not speaking up. I'm compelled to share crucial insights. We must work together as a team to prevent rape and support survivors.

A Call to Action for Parents:

1. Prioritize your child's safety and well-being.
2. Research and ensure your child's boarding school is secure.
3. Foster open communication with your child, never be too busy to listen to them. Be their best friend.
4. Teach sex education and boundaries at an early age.
5. Be observant and responsive to changes in your child's behavior. Never ignore the slightest changes.
6. Never cover up rape incidents; report them to the appropriate authorities. This will further reduce the act.
7. Avoid blaming your child for rape incidents.

A Call to Action for Educators:

1. Recognize your role as a guardian (Loco Parentis).
2. Be aware of changes in students' behavior. They might actually be using displacement mechanism at such period. Giving punitive measures to victims is only worsening the situation.
3. Provide a safe, non-judgmental space for students to share concerns.
4. Maintain confidentiality to encourage open communication.

A Call to Action for School Administrators:

1. Employ licensed Educational Psychologists or Counsellors.
2. Ensure a safe, supportive environment for students.

Together we can break the silence surrounding rape and create a safer and more supportive community for all.

Dr. Falayi B.O.
Educational Psychologist