Lonely, Even in the Crowd !?
You have woken up, got ready for work. You come home. You have your wife and your child waiting happily to have dinner along with you. You sit with them to have dinner. Then your friend calls you for a night stroll down the building. You even go down and chit chat with your friend.
Everything what I just said, seemed normal for you right ? But there's a deeper meaning to it. There's more it to observe. The person I just mentioned is ordinary like you and me, common individual. Even when everything outside is seeming perfect, still there's emptiness inside each one of us. That is emptiness within you, emptiness within me. No one is being real about ones problems or life crisis. If your friend asks you " how are you ?" Your quick answer will be " I am good" even though you may be facing problems in your home front of having a bad day, or facing depression.
Everyone is lonely even when being in a crowd. And it's completely normal to feel lonely. But suppressing one's feelings inside for a long time, it's not the right thing to do. You don't need to express out to anyone your problems because you "feel" they will give you solution. Not everyone are with you with an intention to purely help you rightly.
And it's true and nowadays, people are being more lonely and being into themselves, talking to one's own self, or distracting oneself with mobile phones and games and books. Question your self one thing, If you are so much going through mental stress being all alone by yourself why don't you step forward to help your inner disturbances to be healed ??
Even when you are with your parents, grandparents, your brothers and sisters, still if you are feeling lonely, then it's completely normal to feel so.
But if you feel, sad, depressed by feeling lonely. Not have anyone to have real and open, non judgemental talk, then you really need to reach out to a licensed Professional Mental Health expert who will guide you to be free from all your inner conflicts, loneliness and bring back your original smile on your face even when you are with your own self !
